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Getting the Facts Straight About Suicide

Myths                                vs.

Facts

People who talk about suicide will not make an attempt. 80% of those who commit suicide give warning signs before.
Mention of the word "suicide" will give the person ideas. Discussing suicidal feelings helps to relieve anxiety.
All persons who attempt suicide want to die. Most suicidal persons are confused about wanting life or death.
Only certain types of people commit suicide. Suicide affects all races, colors and socio-economic groups.
A person who attempts suicide will not try again. Most people who commit suicide have made previous attempts.
Suicide is an act of impulse with no previous planning. Most suicides are carefully planned and thought about for weeks.
Most suicide attempts occur at the holidays. Suicide attempts increase during springtime.

How to Help 

If you feel that someone may be suicidal, it is important to remember: 

  • To trust your suspicions and take all suicidal clues seriously
  • To express your concern. Listen. Be supportive.  Encourage the person to talk about his or her pain, fear, or loneliness.
  • NEVER TO KEEP A SECRET

Reach Out and Get Help 

  • Let other people know so they can help too…parents, teachers, guidance counselors, nurses, etc.
  • Get professional advice.
  • Stay with the suicidal person.
  • CALL RESPONSE THE 24-HOUR CRISIS HOTLINE (631) 751-7500.

“SUICIDE IS AN UNNECESSARY PERMANENT ACT IN RESPONSE TO A TEMPORARY PROBLEM.  THERE ARE ALTERNATIVES.”

References:
Response of Suffolk County, Inc.

For more information contact:
Long Island Crisis Center: www.longislandcrisiscenter.org

Response Hotline: www.responsehotline.org

This article was written by Jessica Salvesen, a Social Worker at Commack Middle School.